I would recommend against adding regular covalent bonds between the metal and its coordinating atoms since Chimera's atom-typing code isn't designed to handle coordination covalent bonds, so any chemistry-related computations (hydrogen addition, charge assignment, etc.) involving the complex would be wacky afterward.  I would instead recommend you just get the pseudobonds depicted however you prefer.  You can do this by control-clicking one of the pseudobonds to select it, then hit up arrow to select all the pseudobonds in all complexes in the molecule, then bring up the Selection Inspector (by clicking the green button at the lower right of the Chimera window).  In that you can change the color of the pseudobonds, whether then are depicted as wire or stick, etc.  If you change to the "Pseudobond Group" item of the dialog's "Inspect" menu, you can change the line dashing of the pseudobonds.  The group also has a color, which is used for any pseudobond whose individual color is "No color".

There is also limited control as to how metal complexes look in new models in the "New Molecules" preference category (Favorites->Preferences).

If you must create regular bonds to the metal for some reason there are two methods.  You can control double-click a pseudobond and choose "Select Bonded" from the popup menu, then type "bond sel" in the command line -- or you can bring up the Pseudobond Panel with General Controls->Pseudobond Panel and choose the coordination complexes and hit the "select bonded" button, then use Structure Editing->Build Structure, choose the Add/Delete Bonds tab and click the Add button (with the menu set to "reasonable bonds").

--Eric